Three recommendations for understanding Japan

Japan is a fascinating country because it has such a distinct culture, with elements of admiration for foreigners while also deliberately keeping them at arm's length.

I've lived for long enough in Japan to know that a prolonged stay in the country (ie. longer than a couple of months) is not advisable. However, for some strange reason, I also miss the environment there and consistently want to return every once in a while.

If you're curious about Japan - or just want to reminisce while waiting for pandemic travel restrictions to lift - I have listed three recommendations below that I think would help anyone to better understand this country, its people, and its effect on foreigners.

Movie: Lost in Translation

A platonic love story between an aging actor and an aimless recent college graduate set in Tokyo, I think this whimsical comedy captures the essence of the foreigner experience in Japan.

There's been accusations of Asian stereotyping in the movie from Japanese media, but I can attest to its resonance as a commentary on how Tokyo appears to a first-time visitor.

TV drama: Kekkon Dekinai Otoko

Don't be put off by the title, which is literally translated as "the man who cannot get married". The unconventional protagonist, a 40-year-old architect who has no interest whatsoever in what others think of him, enables the TV show to examine many of the idiosyncrasies of Japanese culture.

In a more realistic manner than nearly all other Japanese dramas, it holds a mirror to social issues such as the taboo of eating alone in public, the financial struggles of young Japanese, stalkers, and interpersonal etiquette.

YouTube channel: Nobita from Japan

A recent discovery of mine, Nobita is an absolute treasure. He's truly passionate about sharing the "real Japan" with the world, with a good mix of humorous videos, documentary-style videos, and in-depth interviews.

The channel isn't afraid to dive into taboo or controversial issues in Japan. There are videos discussing hikkomori, chikan, Japanese pornography, bullying, child suicide, working in maid cafes, Japanese views on foreigners, papakatsu, and a host of other real social issues.

Nobita's earnestness and caring personality shines through his videos. They're educational, engaging, and capable of having a lasting impact on viewers. If you want to learn about Japanese society as it is today, this is the channel to follow and watch regularly.